
FAQ
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Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
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Will this create mistrust in the relationship?When handled respectfully, these agreements often strengthen transparency and trust.
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Can a prenup be thrown out in court?Possibly, if it was signed under pressure or contains illegal terms. We take steps to avoid those risks.
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What if I’ve already married?A postnup can be just as effective and often used when circumstances change.
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Do we both need attorneys?Each party is encouraged to seek independent legal advice. We can work with your spouse’s attorney to finalize terms.
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Can we modify it later?Yes. Agreements can be updated if your situation changes or you both agree to revise terms.
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Domestic Violence
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Do I need proof to file for a protective order?You don’t need to show physical evidence, but statements, witness accounts, or documentation can help your case.
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What’s the difference between a protective order and a restraining order?Protective orders are civil court orders focused on stopping family violence or stalking; restraining orders typically address behavior during legal proceedings like divorce or custody disputes.
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Can I get custody if the other parent has been abusive?Yes. Courts in Texas consider any history of family violence when making custody decisions.
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What if I’ve been falsely accused?We also represent individuals wrongly accused of abuse. False claims can impact custody, reputation, and rights. We’ll fight to set the record straight.
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How long does a protective order last?Temporary orders can last up to 20 days; final orders may last two years or more, depending on the facts.
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Can I stay in the home during a divorce?In some cases, yes. A protective order can keep the abusive party out of the shared residence.
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Same Sex Divorce
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Does Texas treat same sex divorces differently?No. Legally, same sex marriages are handled the same as any other marriage, but unique facts can impact how issues are decided.
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Can I seek custody if I’m not the biological parent?Possibly. Texas allows courts to consider the role you’ve played in the child’s life. We can help you make your case.
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What if we lived together long before marriage?This may affect how property is divided. We’ll work with you to establish the timeline and fight for fair treatment.
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Do I need an attorney if the divorce is amicable?Yes. Even in agreed divorces, a lawyer can make sure that your rights are protected and agreements are legally sound.
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Can we use mediation instead of going to court?Absolutely. We help many same sex couples resolve their divorces through mediation, which can be less stressful and more private.
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Divorce Mediation
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Do we have to be on good terms to mediate?No. You just need to be willing to communicate and negotiate with support from a neutral third party.
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Is mediation legally binding?Once you reach an agreement, it can be formalized and signed by a judge to become legally enforceable.
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Can we mediate if we already filed for divorce?Yes. Mediation can happen at any point during the process—even after litigation begins.
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Will I still need a lawyer during mediation?It’s highly recommended. Having an attorney makes sure your rights are protected and agreements are fair.
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What happens if mediation fails?If no agreement is reached, you can still proceed to court. Mediation doesn’t limit your legal options.
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Family Law
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What is Collaborative Law?Collaborative law is a process where all parties commit to resolving their differences fairly instead of through what can be an emotionally, and financially, expensive process of divorce trials (contested hearings) and courtroom legal wrangling.
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Child Protective Services
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Can CPS remove my child without a court order?Yes, CPS has the legal authority to remove a child without a court order if there is reason to believe that the child is in immediate danger of harm, such as allegations of abuse or neglect. If this happens, the court will hold a hearing within 14 days to determine whether the removal was justified.
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How can I prevent CPS from taking my child?If CPS is investigating your family, it’s important to consult an attorney immediately. Our attorneys will help ensure that your rights are protected, and work to prevent unnecessary removal of your child by addressing the concerns raised in the investigation.
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What happens if CPS seeks to terminate my parental rights?CPS can request termination of parental rights in cases of severe neglect or abuse. If you are facing this situation, it is crucial to have legal representation to fight for your rights as a parent. We will help defend your case and provide guidance on the steps needed to reunite with your child.
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How long does a CPS case last?The length of a CPS case varies depending on the severity of the allegations and whether the parents comply with the service plan. In cases where parental rights are at risk, the process can take several months or even years. Our team will help guide you through the process and advocate for a quick resolution.
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What is a service plan, and do I have to follow it?A service plan is created by CPS and outlines the steps parents need to take to reunite with their child, such as attending parenting classes or undergoing counseling. It is critical to follow the plan and demonstrate progress to CPS and the court.
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Child Support
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How is child support calculated in Texas?Child support in Texas is calculated based on the non-custodial parent’s income and the guidelines provided by the Texas Family Code. The court will apply a percentage to the paying parent’s income based on the number of children involved, but additional factors such as the child’s special needs or the amount of time each parent spends with the child can influence the final amount.
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What if the non-custodial parent doesn't have a steady income?If the non-custodial parent has irregular income or is unemployed, the court may base child support on the parent’s earning potential or the minimum guidelines. In some cases, the court may determine that the non-custodial parent must pay based on a reasonable estimate of their income.
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Can child support be modified?Yes, child support can be modified if there is a significant change in circumstances, such as a change in income, the child’s needs, or the time the child spends with each parent. Contact Heiman Law Firm to discuss how we can help you request a modification of your child support order.
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How long does child support last?In most cases, child support lasts until the child turns 18. However, if the child is still in high school at age 18, child support will continue until the child graduates. In cases involving children with disabilities, child support may continue for an indefinite period.
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What happens if the parent ordered to pay child support doesn't pay?Texas has strong enforcement measures for child support, including wage garnishment, intercepting tax returns, or even suspension of a driver’s or professional license. If you are having difficulty receiving child support payments, we can help enforce the order through legal means.
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What is "child support"?
Child support is money paid by the non-custodial parent to the custodial parent in order to meet the needs of the children. There are main reasons and factors that require child support. Basic necessities such as food, clothing, and shelter set the minimum amount of child support needed. Most stares require divorced parents to have some form of health insurance for their children. The parent with the better employee-covered benefits will require a medical, dental and/or vision plan. There are uninsured or “extraordinary” medical expenses such as out-of-pocket medical costs, dental braces, casts, eyeglasses and other expenses. Other expenses such as transportation, entertainment, extracurricular activities, and college are included.
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To what should the parties look for guidance regarding amount of child support to be paid?
The Texas Family Code contains guidelines for the computation of child support. The guideline amount is presumably the minimum amount which should be awarded as support for the children. If any child has “special needs,” then additional child support may be awarded.
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When does the duty to pay child support end?
Unless the child marries sooner than age 18, joins the military, or does something else to become “emancipated” prior to turning 18 years of age, child support orders continue until the child reaches age 18. But if the child is in high school at age 18, support continues until high school graduation. If the child is disabled, it may be possible to continue child support for an indefinite period. Texas law makes no provision for support during college, or the payment of college expenses. But the parties may provide for the payment of those expenses by contract.
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How much support will I receive or have to pay?Texas uses a guideline formula, but the specifics depend on your income, custody arrangement, and other factors.
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Can we change our support order later?Yes, support can be modified if there’s been a significant change in circumstances.
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What happens if support isn’t being paid?The court can take action to enforce the order, including wage garnishment and other remedies.
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Do support payments cover health insurance or daycare?These expenses can be addressed in the order depending on your child’s needs.
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Can we make a private agreement outside of court?You can, but we strongly recommend having it approved by the court to protect both parties.
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Frisco Divorce
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How long must I live in Texas to file for divorce?To file for divorce in Texas, either you or your spouse must have been a resident of the state for at least six months and a resident of the county where you are filing for at least the past 90 days.
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What is the difference between a no-fault and fault-based divorce?A no-fault divorce is granted based on the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage, with no need to assign blame. A fault-based divorce may be pursued if one spouse is at fault for the breakdown, such as through adultery, cruelty, or abandonment.
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How is property divided in a Texas divorce?Texas follows community property laws, meaning most property acquired during the marriage is divided fairly between the spouses. However, property that is considered separate, such as assets owned before marriage or acquired through inheritance, may not be subject to division.
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What factors affect spousal support (alimony)?The court considers several factors when determining spousal support, including the requesting spouse’s needs, the other spouse’s ability to pay, the length of the marriage, and whether there are children involved.
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What is the Standard Possession Order for child custody?In Texas, when parents are appointed as joint managing conservators, they share decision-making rights. The Standard Possession Order typically determines the parent with whom the child will live and the visitation schedule.
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How long does a divorce take in Texas?In Texas, there is a mandatory 60-day waiting period before a divorce can be finalized. However, the process may take longer if the case is contested or involves complex issues such as child custody or property division.
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Can I get a divorce if my spouse doesn't agree?Yes, Texas allows for a no-fault divorce, so even if your spouse does not agree, you can still proceed with the divorce. However, contested issues such as property division or child custody may take longer to resolve.
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Wills & Trusts
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What is the difference between a will and a trust?A will specifies how your assets should be distributed after your death, but it requires a probate court process to be executed. A trust, on the other hand, allows you to manage and distribute your assets without going through probate, offering greater flexibility and control.
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Can I change my will after it’s created?Yes, you can update or revoke your will at any time while you are still alive. Changes can be made through a codicil (an amendment to the will), or by creating a new will that explicitly revokes the old one.
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Do I need a trust if I already have a will?A trust is not required, but it can provide added benefits, such as avoiding probate and offering more control over your assets. Trusts can also help minimize estate taxes, protect assets from creditors, and ensure that your assets are distributed as you wish.
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Who should I appoint as the executor of my will?The executor should be someone who is trustworthy, responsible, and capable of managing financial and legal matters. Often, people appoint a close family member, but it can also be a trusted friend or professional. It’s important that the executor understands their responsibilities and is willing to take on the role.
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What assets are not included in my will?Certain assets, such as life insurance policies, joint bank accounts, and retirement accounts, typically pass outside of your will directly to the designated beneficiaries. If you want these assets to be distributed in a specific way, you need to ensure they are properly designated through beneficiary designations, not in the will.
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Child Custody
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What is the difference between joint and sole managing conservatorship?In a Joint Managing Conservatorship (JMC), both parents share the rights to make decisions about their child’s life, though they may not necessarily have equal time with the child. In a Sole Managing Conservatorship (SMC), one parent has the exclusive right to make major decisions for the child, and the other parent typically has limited visitation or no access to the child.
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How does the court decide the child's best interests?
The court will assess various factors to determine what is in the child’s best interests, including the child’s emotional and physical needs, each parent’s ability to provide for the child, and the child’s relationship with both parents.
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Can the court change the custody arrangement after it's been decided?
Yes, the court can modify the custody arrangement if there has been a significant change in circumstances, such as a parent’s relocation, a change in the child’s needs, or if the current arrangement is not in the child’s best interest.
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How is child support determined in Texas?
Child support is calculated based on the non-custodial parent’s income and the needs of the child, which includes basics such as food, clothing, shelter, and medical care. Texas uses guidelines to calculate child support, but the amount may vary based on special needs or other considerations.
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What happens if parents cannot agree on a custody arrangement?
If parents cannot agree on a custody arrangement, the court will intervene and make a decision based on the child’s best interests. The court considers factors like the child’s emotional bond with each parent, the ability of each parent to care for the child, and any history of abuse or neglect.
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I have heard that the presumption in Texas is that the parents of a child should be appointed as "joint managing conservators."
Does That Mean The Parents Split Time With The Children 50-50?
No. “Joint Managing Conservators” means that the parents share rights and duties to to their children. This means that both parents should be involved in the making of important decisions for their child, such as school issues and when a medical decision is needed. The “Standard Possession Order” awards possession and access to the children. And, it is presumed to be in the best interest of a child who is 3 years of age or older.
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If the parents cannot agree about child custody (“conservatorship”) how will the court make a decision on that issue?
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If the parents cannot agree on conservatorship and access issues, on what basis will the court decide those issues?
These matters, like all of those pertaining to children, are based upon a finding by the court of the children’s best interest. As discussed above, the Texas Family Code contains a “Standard Possession Order” which is presumably in the children’s best interest. While the court does not have to follow that order, that is where the discussion starts, and often, where it ends.
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Adoption
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What factors determine whether an adoption will be contested?
The complexity of an adoption case often depends on the circumstances surrounding parental rights, the cooperation of biological parents, and whether one or both parents’ rights need to be terminated. If parental rights need to be contested, it may complicate and lengthen the adoption process. Our team can help you understand and navigate these challenges.
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What is a Step-Parent Adoption?
A step-parent adoption occurs when a child’s biological parent marries someone who is not the child’s parent. If the absent parent is unwilling to relinquish their parental rights, we will work with you to determine whether the adoption can proceed through involuntary termination of parental rights.
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Can I adopt a child through CPS in Texas?
Yes, you can adopt a child through the Texas Department of Family Protective Services (DFPS). This process includes attending training sessions, undergoing a social study, and working with a CPS caseworker to find a child who is eligible for adoption. Our attorneys are well-versed in CPS adoptions and can guide you through each step.
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How long does the adoption process take?
The adoption process can take anywhere from several months to over a year, depending on the complexity of the case, such as whether parental rights need to be terminated or if additional documentation (such as a Health, Social, Education, and Genetic History Report) is required.
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Divorce
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How long must I live in Texas before I can file for divorce here?
A suit for divorce may not be maintained in this state unless at the time the suit is filed either the husband or wife has been a: 1) domiciliary of Texas for the preceding six months; and 2) resident of the Texas county in which the suit is filed for the preceding 90-day period.
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What are the terms used to identify the parties in a divorce proceeding?
The party filing the action is called the “Petitioner,” while the other party to the divorce is referred to as the “Respondent.”
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What is the "venue," and what is the proper venue for a Denton County divorce case?
“Venue” refers to which particular county, of those having jurisdiction, is the proper court for a particular case. In Texas, proper venue for the divorce action is in the District Court within a county in which the residency requirements (discussed above) are met.
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Is there a waiting period for a divorce action?
Yes. After the divorce is filed, there is a minimum sixty-day waiting period before the divorce can be granted. Most cases take more than sixty days, to learn what property there is, what the issues are, and to either finalize the agreed documents, or to prepare the case for trial.
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What is meant by "Grounds for divorce"?
A “ground” is one of the legally recognized reasons, or justifications, for a divorce.
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What are the divorce grounds in Texas?
A) No Fault – on the petition of either party to a marriage, the court may grant a divorce without regard to fault if the marriage has become insupportable because of discord or conflict of personalities that destroys the legitimate ends of the marriage, and prevents any reasonable expectation of reconciliation.B) There are also fault grounds for divorce. These are grounds for which one of the parties is at fault for the failure of the marriage. Cruelty, adultery, confinement in a mental hospital, and concealed divorce are fault grounds recognized in Texas.
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What does the term "Spousal Support" mean?
“Spousal support” (sometimes called “alimony”) is money paid by one spouse to the other to compensate a spouse for the loss of income which will be experienced by the “payee spouse.”
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Is spousal support available while the divorce is pending in court, or only after the divorce has become finalized?
The court may order that one spouse support the other during the pendancy of the divorce action and/or after the divorce has become final. Support awarded pending the final decree of divorce is not to extend beyond the period of time necessary for the prosecution of the divorce action.
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What is the duration of alimony (spousal support) payments?
To receive alimony after divorce, generally, you must have been married for a period exceeding 10 years, and in certain situations, you may be qualified to receive up to $2,500 per month for a maximum of three years. That period may be extended if there is a disabled child or spouse.
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What factors will the court consider when determining how much alimony to award to a party?
The Court will consider the needs of the requesting spouse and the ability of the other spouse to pay. The Court will additionally consider the health and age of the parties, ability to work, responsibility for children, availability of funds, and the length of the marriage.
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On what basis does the court decide how marital property is divided?
Texas is a so-called “equitable distribution” state. This means that the division of property and debts between the divorcing parties should be fair and equitable, but not necessarily equal. The court has wide discretion in dividing property.
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Is the “separate property” of one spouse subject to being divided up?
The question here is whether property “belonging to” one of the parties should be included in the marital estate for purposes of an equitable division. Generally, separate property acquired before the marriage, or by gift or inheritance at any time, is excluded from the marital estate unless it has been ‘comingled” with community property such that it is no longer distinguishable. There are a lot of tricky considerations concerning Texas Community Property law, such as whether income from separate property is separate or community property, or whether the parties may agree between themselves to alter the character of certain items or classes of their property. We will be happy to meet to discuss your particular situation with you.
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What is managing conservatorship (custody) and possession and access (visitation)?
In Texas, there is a rebuttable presumption that parents should serve as the Joint Managing Conservators of their children. In Texas, “Conservatorship” is “Custody” of the children. Joint Managing Conservatorship does not mean that each party will have the children one-half of the time. It also does not mean that child support will not be awarded to one parent. Joint Managing Conservatorship does mean that the parents will either share, allocate, or apportion parental rights and duties. In most cases, it also means that the child’s domicile must be established in the final Court orders. “Possession and access” speaks to when each parent has the right to visit with, and spend time with, the child(ren).
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If the parents cannot agree on conservatorship and access issues, on what basis will the court decide?
These matters, like all of those pertaining to children, are based upon the court’s determination of the child’s best interest.
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What is “child support?”
Child support is money paid by the non-custodial parent to the custodial parent in order to meet the needs of the child(ren).
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What guides child support amounts, and what standard does the court use if parents can't agree?
The Texas Family Code contains guidelines for the computation of child support. The guideline amount is presumably the minimum amount which should be awarded as support for the child(ren).
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When does the duty to pay child support end?
Absent marriage or other acts which would emancipate the child, child support orders continue until the child reaches age 18. If the child is in high school at age 18, support continues until high school graduation. If the child is disabled, it may be possible to continue child support for an indefinite period. Texas law makes no provision for support during college, or the payment of college expenses. But, the parties may provide for the payment of those expenses by contract.
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What is "separate property"?
The Texas Constitution defines “Separate Property” and “Community Property.” While the definitions are straight-forward, applying them to a particular marriage can be tricky and complicated, especially if the marriage is a long one; if gifts and inheritances have been received by the parties, if monies were not kept in separate accounts, and if separate property was productive (i.e. it earned interest or income). Additionally, there can be issues of “Equitable Reimbursement” which arise from certain uses of Community or Separate Property.
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What happens to that "separate property" during a divorce case?
This question concerns whether property owned by one of the parties should be included in the marital estate for purposes of the court’s property division. Generally, property is “separate” if it was acquired before the marriage, or by gift or inheritance at any time. Sometimes, one or more items of property “mutate” to another item or items of property. “Separate Property,” once proven to be such, is excluded from the marital estate unless it has been ‘co-mingled” with community property to the extent that it is no longer distinguishable from the community property. There are a lot of tricky considerations concerning Texas Community Property Law, such as whether income from separate property is separate or community property, or whether the parties may agree between themselves to alter the character of certain items or classes of their property. An experienced Texas Family Lawyer can explain these issues to you.
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For how long must a person live in Texas before he or she can obtain a divorce in Texas?
The wife, the husband, or both spouses must have lived in Texas for at least the most recent six months (this is referred to as “being domiciled in Texas”). And had a home for at least the last ninety days, in the particular county in which the divorce case will be filed (this is what is meant by “being a resident” of that county).
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What do some terms commonly used in Texas divorce proceedings mean?
Equitable distribution is the division of property between the spouses and usually that property if bought or acquired by one or both spouses during the marriage. Fault grounds where marital misconduct giving one spouse a legal reason to sue for divorce, such as abuse, abandonment and adultery. Pendente Lite is a temporary arrangement for custody, child support, child visitation, alimony, and possession of the family home until a final hearing. The spouse who initiates the case, by filing an Original Petition for Divorce, is known as the “petitioner.” The other spouse is designated as the “respondent. ”When “venue” is proper for the divorce case, that means that the divorce is filed in the right county. In Texas, proper venue for the divorce action is in the District Court within a county in which the residency requirements (discussed above) are met.
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How long does a divorce case have to be on file with the court before a divorce can be granted?
Once the divorce case is filed, there is a minimum sixty-day waiting period prior before the court has the power to grant the divorce, except in cases of family violence. But most contested cases are on file longer than sixty days, because it usually takes more than sixty days to learn what issues remain contested and what the evidence is for those issues. Also, if a trial will be necessary, the court often requires the parties to mediate the case prior to trial. Drafting and having final documents entered also will usually take awhile.
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I have heard people talk about "having grounds for divorce." What does that mean?
“Grounds for divorce” means simply a basis on which the court may grant a divorce. In most cases, the grounds used are so-called “No Fault” grounds.
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What are the recognized grounds for divorce which are recognized in Texas?
No Fault—this means that the marriage has become insupportable because of discord or conflict of personalities that destroy the legitimate ends of the marriage and, there is no reasonable expectation that the spouses will reconcile with one another. There are also fault grounds for divorce. These are grounds for which one of the parties is at fault for the failure of the marriage. Cruelty, adultery, confinement in a mental hospital, and concealed divorce are fault grounds recognized in Texas.
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Is spousal support available while the divorce is pending in court, or only after the divorce has become finalized?
Alimony is court-ordered payment from one former spouse to the other after divorce. This can be paid before or after marital separation or divorce. The court may order that one spouse pay spousal support to the other spouse while the divorce case is ongoing, as well as after the case ends. There are different standards which apply to each of those types of spousal support payment programs.
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Alimony & Spousal Maintenance
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Does Texas have alimony?
Yes, Texas has spousal support (alimony), but it is subject to strict eligibility requirements. It is more common for spouses to agree on alimony as part of a divorce settlement rather than having the court order it.
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Is spousal support mandatory in Texas?No, spousal support is not mandatory. A judge will only award spousal maintenance if the spouse requesting it meets the specific eligibility criteria. Even if eligible, the judge has discretion to award an amount and duration that is appropriate based on the circumstances.
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How is alimony calculated in Texas?The amount of alimony is based on the needs of the requesting spouse, the paying spouse’s income, and factors such as the length of the marriage, the requesting spouse’s ability to earn income, and the standard of living during the marriage.
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Can alimony be modified?Yes, alimony payments can be modified if there is a significant change in circumstances, such as a change in income, the recipient’s needs, or the paying spouse’s financial situation.
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What is Spousal Support under Texas Law?
“Spousal support” (sometimes informally called “alimony”) is money paid by one spouse to the other to compensate a spouse for the loss of income which will be experienced by the spouse who will receive the spousal support. For short-term marriages that last under ten years, alimony lasts no longer than half the length of the marriage. Marriage is defined as the time between the date of marriage and the date of separation.
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